This episode gets right to the heart of what it means to “mom” with love and embrace imperfect parenting. Valerie Probstfeld, a devoted mom and nurse practitioner, opens up about her journey of motherhood—from facing her initial high expectations and the reality check of #newmomlife, to her evolution towards valuing simple, loving interactions over perfection.

Valerie and I chat about how she finds profound lessons in the everyday chaos, and why she believes that loving well often means letting go of control. Whether you’re seeking relatable dialogue about the pressures of parenting or looking for a bit of encouragement to find beauty in the mess, this episode is here to remind you that it’s all about loving your kids and yourself, imperfections and all.

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